When you start diving into manifestation, you’re told to dream big. Not like, “well maybe I can go for a 4-bedroom home rather than a 3-bedroom one…”. But “I want a freaking mansion with a view of the beach and a secret tunnel to a spa in the mountains” kind of big.
It’s hella exciting… and quite frankly, a little terrifying.

Like, let’s say want to become a 7 figure business owner.
Which means complete freedom with what you do, working with your passion, and tons of moulah in your bank account. Awesome!
But also… the taxes you’ve got to pay must be enormous. How do you even do bookkeeping on such a huge level? You might even be responsible for managing employees… how do you even do that? It must be so hard to manage a business that big… and what if you lose it and end up in huge debt?
Let’s face it, no matter how great a vision of yours seems, there is always some kind of downside attached to it. It’s just the nature of life. Every light has its shadow.

But a part of you knows that shouldn’t keep you from getting what you want. (Otherwise you wouldn’t be here.)
So here is mental reframe for how to break out of it.
It all comes down to realizing this:
You already have difficulties in your life anyways.
In this 7 figure business example, all the things I mentioned above probably will be hard about the business — at least at first.
But actually, you won’t be any worse off than right now.
Because there’s already things that are hard about the life you’re living right now.
Like:
- It’s hard to worry and stress about money all the time.
- It could be hard to work a job you don’t like, with people you don’t like.
- It could be hard to work for someone else when you want to be a business owner.
- It could be hard to try to make ends meet without financial security.
- It could be hard to sacrifice comfort and desires because of a lack of financial funds.
Maybe you just don’t consciously realize that it’s hard, because you’ve gotten used to them. You’ve gotten comfortable in this kind of hard. But the new kind attached to your dream, that one’s scary — because you haven’t experienced it yet.
But would you rather have some things be difficult with the life you live now, or with your dream life?
They both have elements that are hard.
Choose your hard.

Practical exercise
List out all the things you can come up with that are hard about NOT manifesting what you want — and staying where you are.
Really sink your teeth into this.
Because your subconscious mind is trying to protect you by keeping you safe. So if you can make where you are look harder than where want to go, your subconscious mind will try to take you there.




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